Stolpe Star 2019

Of course, nothing stands still. Sometimes this reality fills us with exhilarating anticipation, and other times we struggle to adapt to what is coming at us. The flow of the Advent, Christmas, and Epiphany seasons remind us that while we wait for the promised peace on earth and within ourselves, the challenges of our own lives and the times in which we live call us to keep our focus on the assurance and guidance of staying close to Jesus every day. So as you celebrate at this season, Candy and I wish and pray for you a renewed depth of hope, peace, joy, and love. The mystery of the incarnation of God in Jesus, Emmanuel – God with us, is the confidence that we are not alone on our journeys.

Four Generation Thanksgiving

At Thanksgiving, we celebrated the big change of 2019 for us with a four generation gathering. In July Candy’s Dad, Charlie Miller, moved to a senior living residence a mile and a half from us in Milwaukee. After 92 years living in Minnesota, this was a huge and challenging transition. Serious falls in June of 2017 and 2019 indicated he would be better close to us (for you who may not know, Candy is his only child) than attempting to live on his own in his home, even with daily help from a caregiver. We are very thankful to have him closer so we can respond to his needs in minutes instead of hours. Most of what he needs, such as laundry and shopping, are integrated into our regular rhythms. I have been able to adjust my activities to accommodate caring for and loving him as an extension of caring for and loving Candy.

Candy continues to do very well with her Alzheimer’s journey. She continues to enjoy and benefit from the Mind Effects program at the Lutheran Home for those in the early stages of memory loss. She still beats me at Scrabble more than half of the time. She works word puzzles and other mind games to keep her thinking as sharp as possible. We attend a Memory Café monthly, a program of the Alzheimer’s Association for fun socialization with others on this journey. I participate in a monthly Caregivers Support Group, also from the Alzheimer’s Association. I have begun regular appointments with a counselor to help me tend my own well-being so I can be fully present to Candy and her Dad.

If you had a chance to see the November issue of Guideposts magazine, you may have seen an article about how my 50 year pattern of praying the Psalms has helped and enriched my journey with Candy. The article was arranged as part of getting the word out about my book Ripples that was released in October 2018. If you haven’t already you can check it out at www.ripplesthroughlives.com. On this journey I am seeking ways to simplify life as much as possible. We make a point of looking for at least one source of joy every day, and adopting the discipline of not letting the day’s struggles or anticipation of our future trajectory detract from that joy. I am simplifying the Stolpe Star, while still giving you basic updates on the family.

Our Wisconsin granddaughter Elizabeth went with Leanne and Jon, Hannah and Isaac on the home building trip to Guatemala last summer. Hannah studied abroad in Strasberg, France this year, after having studied in Chile last year. She is a senior at Messiah College and will graduate in May, expecting to be teaching Spanish and French somewhere the next school year.

Elizabeth

Isaac is a sophomore Music Education major at Grove City College.

Hannah and Isaac

Sam will graduate from Wauwatosa East High School this year and has been accepted to study acoustical engineering at Goshen College in the fall. 

Sam

Elizabeth will be turning 13 before the New Year and shifting into a Montessori program of the Wauwatosa public schools for the rest of seventh and all of eighth grades. She plays violin in the Longfellow Middle School orchestra program.

 David began teaching at James E. Dottke High School in West Allis this year. It is a project based learning environment that is right up his alley. You can learn more about it at https://dottke.wawm.k12.wi.us/. Rachel switched from being a substitute aid in Wauwatosa schools to being a full-time aid at the Montessori school where Elizabeth will be also.

Leanne continues as a Kindergarten teacher and working on her graduate school program. Jon also continues as a manager of engineers (I really don’t know his title or understand all he does) for the building automation division of Siemens. They also continue their neighborhood and church ministries.

Erik continues as Music Director for the Dallas School of Rock and recently adopted Juno, a black lab mix. Erik and Juno drove to Wisconsin in the summer, shortly after Candy’s Dad arrived. So we were thrilled to see him twice in 2019.

One of the wonderful benefits of serving nine congregations (counting five interim pastorates) in five states is that we have been enriched by a glorious treasury of relationships.  You who are receiving this letter are a valued part of that wealth. You have probably heard the cliché about worldly wealth, that you can’t take it with you. But with our faith in Jesus, we rejoice that we can take each other into the joy God has waiting for us.

Peace,

Norm (with Candy adding her greeting too)

Four Generation Thanksgiving

I do think that having a day to prompt us to intentionally express gratitude is very healthy. As I moved from lectio divina to Psalm prayers Sunday morning (November 24) Colossians 4:2 seemed an appropriate introduction to the Thanksgiving week. “Devote yourselves to prayer, keeping alert in it with thanksgiving.”

This year I am especially alert to the uniqueness of our four generation Thanksgiving we are anticipating. Since we moved from Texas to Wisconsin in 2017, our son Jon and his family (wife Leanne and children Hannah and Isaac) from Pennsylvania and our son Erik from Texas have joined us (son David, wife Rachel, their children Sam and Elizabeth, and of course Candy and me) for Thanksgiving. A rare opportunity to have all three sons and four grandchildren together at the same time. This past summer Candy’s 92 year old Dad, Charlie Miller, moved from Minnesota to a senior living residence in Wisconsin just a mile and a half from us. Someone may have a better memory than I about this, but I can’t recall when we’ve had all twelve of us together like this at the same time before. And I am quite aware that repeating it may not be very likely. Hannah is about to graduate from college and head into her adult journey, which will take her on many adventures. Sam is starting college in the fall which will alter the rhythms of his life.

As I have reflected on this occasion during the week, I kept coming back to Psalm 128 as my foremost expression of gratitude this Thanksgiving, and have prepared this table grace for us to pray together at dinner on Thursday, incorporating our unique time with the Psalm.

Oh God, before whom generations rise and pass away, we give you heartfelt thanks today that we have four generations together around this table. Thank you for the wonder of being a family who though scattered in different places are together in Christ.

Thank you that “Grandpa Charlie,” is with us. Thank you for his long life of serving you, praying for and sharing the joy of trusting Jesus with many people. We ask that you give him strength and joy for every one of his days.

Thank you that Erik is with us again for the third Thanksgiving in a row. Thank you for the fulfillment he gets from teaching many to play music. Thank you for Tom Irwin sharing an apartment with him. Thank you for Central Christian Church with whom he gives and receives.

                                                                                                                                             

Thank you for Leanne and Jon being with us again this Thanksgiving. Thank you that Hannah is about to finish college and head into the adventures ahead of her. Guide and empower her on her journey. Thank you for Isaac, especially his musical gifts. As he continues in college, lead him on your path. Be with Leanne and Jon as they reach out to many from their “empty nest.” Thank you for the opportunities you give them in church, work, and neighborhood.

Thank you for Rachel and David and our mutual support in our duplex. Thank you for Sam’s opportunity starting college next year. Nurture his creative gifts and point him into his future. Thank you for the richness of bringing Elizabeth into our family. Nurture a fresh spirit of possibilities as she will soon be the only teen in the house. Thank you for the very special opportunities Rachel and David have in their schools and in the church.

Thank you for “Grandma Candy” and “Grandpa Norm” and the love and partnership of their shared journey with Jesus over the years with so many wonderful people. Fill them with deep joy of the blessing of seeing their children’s children as Psalm 128 says.

“Happy is everyone who fears the Lord, who walks in his ways. You shall eat the fruit of the labor of your hands; you shall be happy, and it shall go well with you. Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your children will be like olive shoots around your table. Thus shall the man be blessed who fears the Lord. The Lord bless you from Zion. May you see the prosperity of Jerusalem all the days of your life. May you see your children’s children. Peace be upon Israel!”

This from my prayer Psalms (144:12-15) for Sunday morning seemed a wonderful lead-in to Thanksgiving week when we will have all three of our sons, all four of our grandchildren, and Candy's Dad together all at once. The first four generation gathering in a very long time.

The Psalm is rich with plenty of other themes which I barely scratched this morning and they are still brewing within me, but this really stuck out. I will not incorporate it into the table grace, but have preserved my social media post with this entry.

May our sons in their youth be like plants full grown, our daughters like corner pillars, cut for the building of a palace. May our barns be filled, with produce of every kind; may our sheep increase by thousands, by tens of thousands in our fields, and may our cattle be heavy with young. May there be no breach in the walls, no exile, and no cry of distress in our streets. Happy are the people to whom such blessings fall; happy are the people whose God is the Lord.

Stolpe Star 2018

Oasis on Our Journey

Last year at this time we had barely pitched our tent in Milwaukee as we got organized in our duplex. Now, having gone through a full year’s cycle, we are feeling at home with the rhythm of our journey.

Together on a chilly Thanksgiving morning
Leanne, Isaac, Hannah, Jon, Erik, David, Elizabeth, Sam, Rachel

Early on, maybe even in 1969 but certainly by 1970, we recognized that the image of living in tents from Hebrews 11:9-10 would become a guiding metaphor for our life. At that time we had no idea that we would be pitching our tent in so many varied places, be accompanied by so many wonderful companions, or have such amazing adventures. Though we know God will continue to surprise us on this journey, we recognize we may now be at our last encampment before reaching the city with foundations whose builder and architect is God.

We are very thankful that so far Candy’s Alzheimer’s is progressing slowly. That is the word that’s used, even though regressing seems to be a more appropriate word. She has discontinued computer use, so no longer responds to email or is on Facebook, but she does enjoy phone calls and USPS mail. She enjoys the brain stimulation of Mind Effects from 10 am to 2 pm every Thursday at the Lutheran Home. She loves the crafts and socialization of the monthly Memory Café with a small group of others with memory loss and their caregivers. I benefit from the Alzheimer’s Association monthly caregiver support group. We typically play Scrabble 4-6 evenings a week, and I am doing well if I win more than once.

Just a month after Christmas we will celebrate (though we haven’t figured out how yet) a great milestone on our journey. Our 50^th Wedding Anniversary will be January 25. Since we were all together for Thanksgiving again this year, we don’t anticipate a family reunion next month. Still and all, we anticipate it with joy and gratitude. Often people congratulate us on this as though it is an accomplishment. We rather regard it as having been the greatest, most satisfying adventure of our lives. Yes, Candy’s Alzheimer’s has been an unanticipated turn in the path, but as Candy often says, “Every day we cry a little, and we laugh a little.”  We are learning to live in the moment, finding that God meets us there with great joy.

Candy’s Dad continues to live in his own home in Minnesota with his caregiver, Sue, to check in every day and care for daily needs. We appreciate that she keeps us informed. We have made a few visits. Helping with practical matters also helps keep the relationship strong. This is much easier from Milwaukee than Dallas. We can make it to him in as little as 6 hours if need be.

In June we flew to Pennsylvania to celebrate Isaac’s high school graduation. This fall we made a trip to Dallas for the launching of my book Ripples. You can watch those interviews at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi99QDUyofJs12eyrlCjGvw?guided_help_flow=3 and learn about the book at www.ripplesthroughlives.com. That was the occasion for the trip, but the great benefit was to spend some quality time with Erik and see some of our friends from my days as pastor of Central Christian Church.

The approach of Christmas with its message of joy prompts us to keep our focus on Jesus in each day’s moments of joy.

May you receive great joy this Christmas!

Norm for Candy too

Erik in Texas

Erik is finding deep satisfaction in the impact and interaction he has with students of all ages and the teachers at the Dallas School of Rock, where he is the Music Director. Though not gigging the way he used to, he does get to perform with his student groups.

His role in the music ministry of Central Christian Church continues and deepens. David Aston, the Music Director and Organist, secured a violin for Erik. Erik had played violin in middle school and as a high school freshman. He is thrilled with this opportunity to get back to it. He is preparing something for Christmas for the church. Thanks to Elizabeth letting him use her violin, Erik amazed us with it at Thanksgiving.

anticipating our 50th wedding anniversary January 25

Upstairs Stolpes

Elizabeth is in 6^th grade at Longfellow Middle School, continuing with violin and flute music and swimming. One of our great joys is witnessing her blossom into a delightful young woman.

Sam is a junior at Wauwatosa East High School, playing cello in the orchestra and mandolin for the fiddle club. His preliminary college hunt has begun, looking for someplace for musical engineering and a swim program.

Rachel is transitioning from being an overnight nanny to a substitute teachers aid for students with special needs. This allows her to work when Elizabeth and Sam are in school and sleep at home every night.

In his second year as the impact teacher for Lane Intermediate School in West Allis, with the adjustments made since last year, David is receiving both satisfaction and affirmation. His after school “garage band” club continues to bear fruit in transforming students.

Empty Nest Stolpes

Yes, Jon and Leanne have entered the empty nest stage of life. Isaac is now a freshman at Grove City College, where Leanne and Jon met. He is a music education major: piano, trumpet, and vocal. He performs with several groups besides his classes.

Hannah is a junior at Messiah College with a double major in Spanish and French Education. She was in Chile this year for Spanish proficiency. She will be heading to Strasbourg, France this next semester to work on her French. 

This year Leanne and Jon facilitated a “Dynamic Marriage” group and celebrated their own 22^nd anniversary at Cape May, New Jersey. Not only is Leanne teaching kindergarten, she is working on her own graduate degree and taking piano lessons.

Some Additional Photos from Thanksgiving Morning

Thanks to Rebecca Keiser for the Pictures

www.becominggoldphotography.com

20% Toward Strong, and Counting

Psalm 90 always comes up in my prayer Psalms on my birthday. When I hit 70 in 2016, verse 10 naturally jumped out at me. "The days of our life are seventy years, or perhaps eighty if we are strong." So now at 72, I guess I am 20% toward qualifying as strong. My Dad made it to 83, which he interpreted as 13 bonus years. My Mom died on my birthday in 2014 at 94, indeed an extraordinarily strong woman. Thanks to all of you who have and are continuing to post birthday greetings! 

Today verses 12 and 17 stood out to me in the context of my priority on being sure Candy is supported and cared for throughout her Alzheimer's journey. Yes, count the days with a wise heart. Savor each one! Celebrate each moment of joy! She is doing well, and every day brings true joys. Be careful about intrusions that distract from this focus. And, yes, prosper the work of our hands. My prayer is to be strong enough, long enough to care for her all her days. We are also just a couple of weeks out from the release of my "Ripples" book (It's been a long and winding road.), so I do hope that may prosper and perhaps other things I have written prosper others after my years have come to their end (v. 9). What a great adventure Candy and I have had. Fiftieth anniversary coming January 25. Together we have pitched our tent in IL, NJ, WI, TX, with a couple of brief encampments in Ontario and OK. Now back in WI for our final camp until we read the city with foundations whose builder and architect is God. We have lived the metaphor of living in tents from Hebrews 11:9-10 with great satisfaction and gratitude. Thanks to each of you who have shared parts of that pilgrimage.

Five Generation Legacy of String Music

Sam is on washboard in this picture but also plays mandolin and more

With some of Sam's fiddle club friends starting out to practice in our back yard on Saturday, and moving to the front steps for a well received jam session for the neighbors, then playing at the Val Gallery to open for Greg Gilbertson at the release of his new album with art done by Matthew Bailey, I couldn't help but think of this picture of the Swedish String Band of First Swedish Baptist Church of Oakland, CA in 1906. Not quite like the Fiddle Club, this was the worship band for that congregation before they could afford a piano or organ. My grandmother Annetta (Nettie) Olson (became Erikson ca. 1919) is at the right of the back row next to the man with the mandolin. Next to her is her sister Olga. Some of these people lived long enough for me to get to know them when I was very young and they were definitely old. The man with the cello and the woman at the left end of the back row were the Burks (I'm not sure if or how they Anglicized their name). I well remember her playing the zither. Their daughter is next to Aunt Olga. So, Sam, after five generations, you are inheriting a great string music legacy!

Stolpe Star 2017

Our New Normal

back row: Rachel Sam Norm Candy
middle row: Leanne Elizabeth David Hannah
front row: Jon Isaac Erik

Last year we reported Candy’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis and the impending curve in our life journey. Not that we are exactly on a straightaway, but we are settling into our new normal, but the route had many more curves than we anticipated at this time last year.

The house in Dallas that had been our home for 17 years sold more quickly than we anticipated, even with major issues such  a cracked foundation. So we packed quickly and loaded two PODS (with amazing help from Northway Christian Church) and departed Texas the end of January. The PODS went into storage, and we didn’t see our possessions again until August.

Candy with her Aunt Vonnie and Uncle Roger

The duplex that we now share with David and Rachel, Sam and Elizabeth had been selected but the sale was not yet closed. We took a leisurely trip north, visiting with Candy’s Aunt Vonnie and Uncle Roger in Grand Island, Nebraska, Countryside Chapel friends Neal and Carol Brokaw, Dick and Marj Gibson and Marleen Beck in Burlington, Iowa. As we passed through Illinois, we were able to have dinner with my sister, Elaine, and her husband, Max, before visiting Wheaton, Illinois friends Bill and Linda Cates (who opened their home to us before they returned from out of state) and Don and Judy Shutters.

Candy and Norm with his sister Elaine and her husband Max

After a few flex days in a B&B in Milwaukee, a ways into February we were welcomed into the home of Matthew and Mandy Bailey, and their girls Izzy (7) and Emma (4) and Marquette University PhD student Chris Gooding. These friends of Rachel and David’s from Milwaukee Mennonite Church have become our friends too and gave us a home until we could move into the duplex.

When we asked Dr. Diana Kerwin, the memory disorders specialist who worked with us in Texas, if she could refer us to someone in Milwaukee, she smiled and told us she had been at Froedtert Hospital in Milwaukee before coming to Dallas and suggested Dr. Joseph Govius, who is now handling Candy’s memory care.

Candy with Izzy and Emma Bailey and Erik's dog Isis
who now lives with us and is called Icee

Thursdays From 10 am to 2 pm Candy goes to “Mind Effects” at the Lutheran Home, just minutes from our house. It is a program for people with early memory loss to help keep their brains working. Candy loves it! Though she has holes in her memory, she still beats me at Scrabble 3 or 4 to 1. We play several nights each week.

In March we celebrated Candy’s Dad’s 90^th birthday in Minneapolis. In June he fell and broke a hip, so we spent June and July helping him with transitions from hospital to rehab back to his own home, where his former renter, Sue Brooks, is now his caregiver.

family music Friday after Thanksgiving

The sale of the duplex closed in April, and David and Rachel moved in upstairs. But tenants with a lease stayed through July, and we move in downstairs in August.

Milwaukee Mennonite Church has welcomed us warmly and helped us with our transition. They worship at 4:00 pm on Sundays, and especially now with northern autumn and back to standard time, it is dark. You may know about sundowners and Alzheimer’s, so Candy doesn’t always get there, but we have been walking the four blocks to Spirit of Peace Lutheran Church in the mornings. They are a small congregation able to cope with our quirks, and we receive much joy from them.

Thanksgiving was a major milestone marking the climax of this leg of our journey. Jon and Leanne, Hannah and Isaac drove from Pennsylvania. Erik flew from Texas. Our niece Helen came down from Madison, Wisconsin with her son Andrew on Friday. The talking and music and eating confirmed our path. What a wonderful time we had with all three of our sons and all four of our grandchildren!

With all of the twists and turns of our 2017 journey, we have been acutely aware of God going ahead of us and guiding us when we couldn’t see around the corners. Yes, “Emmanuel” God is with us.

Merry Christmas!

Norm for Candy too

Isaac's Eagle Scout Court of Honor

Erik On His Own

Of course, Erik had to find housing. He has sequentially shared space with two men from Central Christian Church. The first in his 80s and now with one in his 70s. Erik worships with Central Christian Church, where I was the pastor for eleven years.  He contributes to their music ministry by singing in the choir and playing piano, guitar, and bass for worship and their dog park outreach service.

He has been promoted to Assistant Music Director for the School of Rock where he teaches. His performing with Troy Cartwright has taken him many places, as far afield as Idaho and Oregon. He’s had other performing opportunities as well.

Candy and Icee at Lake Michigan in early spring

The Wisconsin Stolpes

Rachel and David rented out their other house when they moved into the duplex. So they are double landlords.

David has a new role at Lane Intermediate School in West Allis, Wisconsin as an impact teacher developing a new program for at risk students.

Besides being fully engaged with Sam and Elizabeth’s school, swimming, and music lives, Rachel nannies a few days a week and evenings too. She plays a significant leader role in Milwaukee Mennonite Church.

Sam with his varsity letter for swimming as a freshman

Sam continues to swim, earning a varsity letter as a freshman. His life features music: cello and mandolin. He has also started driving. Grandpa Kent helps him get lots of road hours.

Elizabeth also swims and is adding flute to her violin music. She and Grandma Candy have connected well and share the joy of a new kitten, River Song.

The Fifty Ninth Street Bridge
(check out Simon and Garfunkel )

The Pennsylvania Stolpes

Jon has written a book with his observations from their 2016 time in Guatemala and the goal of  building 100 homes for widows. The title is Rooftop Reflections and will have been released before you get this. It can be ordered through Amazon or at Rooftopreflections.com.

This year Leanne is teaching kindergarten. Leanne and Jon worked together leading a marriage group.

Stolpe Cousins

Hannah is a sophomore at Messiah College. She will be studying abroad in Chile in the spring and in Paris next school year for her double major of Spanish and French education.

Isaac is a high school senior looking at colleges for music (piano and trumpet). He achieved Eagle Scout in November.

Norm with his niece Helen

panorama of Thanksgiving dinner, Leanne and Jon are to right of frame

Stolpe Star 2016

Taken at Memory Support Group

Turning a Corner

Good drivers know to slow down when they can’t see around a corner and accelerate as they come out of the curve to see the road stretching ahead of them. As we entered 2016 we knew we were coming up to a new direction and the events of Holy Week forced us to slow down as the way ahead of us was obscure.

When I accepted the call to a half-time interim pastorate for 1^st Christian Church of Albany, Texas, we expected it would be my last, and we began thinking about the trajectory of the curve ahead of us. I went to Albany (165 miles west of our home) Friday-Monday, but Candy stayed in Dallas. On Palm Sunday weekend twice she wandered away from the house in the middle of the night. I drove back to Dallas as quickly as I could, and Candy spent Holy Week in the hospital.

After an exhausting battery of tests, she was diagnosed with the early onset of Alzheimer’s disease. I immediately resigned as interim pastor, and for the first time in years I neither preached nor led worship on Easter Sunday.

Candy had planned to fly to Milwaukee to spend spring school break with Rachel and David, Sam and Elizabeth. Instead, David flew to Dallas to help us with this unexpected turn in our path, the details of which are just too intricate to spell out in a Christmas letter.

Most days are mostly good. We cry some. We laugh a lot. We give thanks for the gifts and surprises on this journey. Candy is doing well, and the changes in her medications have been helpful. We are thankful for Dr. Diana Kerwin and the staff of the Memory Disorders Clinic of Presbyterian Hospital in Dallas for their excellent care and the home health nurses and physical therapists. For Elizabeth Kent the counselor who is accompanying us on this journey. For the encouragement I receive from the memory caregivers support group, also at Presbyterian Hospital.

We are deeply thankful for the staff and people of Northway Christian Church with whom we have been members since my retirement from Central Christian Church. Pastor Doug Skinner has given us wonderful spiritual support both in his preaching and personally.

We are thankful for surprises that have come along the way. I must commend Candy for talking openly about her diagnosis. The responses of people help us receive each day as a gift and encourage others who deal with mental health challenges. In one such  conversation Candy became friends with Cheryl Cook, whom we discovered was the sister-in-law of a good friend of mine, and now Candy and Cheryl walk and talk together.

Prior to Candy’s diagnosis we had considered moving to Milwaukee to be close to Rachel and David, Sam and Elizabeth. Though slowed down by turning this corner, we are probably accelerating toward that goal in coordination with Candy’s Dad in Minneapolis and Erik who will stay in Texas as his music career continues to gain traction. To mix a metaphor, making this turn has a lot of moving pieces that need to fit together. So we move forward with prayer and patience, trusting we will be able to discern how God wants all of this to fit together.

As we come around the curve, we are shifting to Gmail for our email. Email, IM, or text me, and I will send you our Gmail addresses. The sbcglobal emails will work while we are in Texas, but you can keep in touch with us by Gmail even as phone numbers and physical address change.

I know this is a lengthy discourse, and even though it leaves out a lot of details, we wanted to inform you of the significant corner we are rounding. We want to give at least a brief update on the rest of the family too.

Connecting all of this to Christmas may seem something of a stretch. The annual reviews that we (and many others) send out at Christmas time do give some perspective and assurance that God has gone with us on our journey so far, so we are confident we can continue to trust God to be with us from here forward too.

Matthew (1:23) interpreted the angel’s announcement to Joseph of the impending birth of Jesus as a sign of Immanuel – the promise from Isaiah 7:14 that God is with us. So whether our personal and family journeys or the turmoil of the nation and world, Christmas assures us that we are not alone, but God is indeed with us.

Merry Christmas!

Norm for Candy too

Erik’s Music Career

Erik continues to play bass for country singer Troy Cartwright, which is accelerating. He also teaches piano, guitar, bass and performance. Moving out on his own is one of the major steps in the corner we are all taking on our journey.

Pennsylvania Trip in June

We both went to Pennsylvania in June for Hannah’s high school graduation. Rachel and David, Sam and Elizabeth met us there for the festivities. Hannah is a freshman at Messiah College in Mechanics-burg, PA majoring in Spanish and French education and runs track. Isaac is a high school junior and almost done with Eagle Scout and devoted to music with piano and trumpet.

We are thankful they will be with us for Christmas.

Candy Did Get To Wisconsin

Though not at spring break, Candy did get to Wisconsin by the end of summer to enjoy time with Rachel and David, Sam and Elizabeth. Sam is a high school freshman. Both Sam and Elizabeth are active in music and competitive swimming.